Your Reason for Prepping is Stupid

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Have you ever uttered these words or simply thought them to yourself? Have you maybe been talking to someone online or reading the comments on your favorite prepping site’s latest article and thought that the person commenting was an idiot for what they said their main concerns about the world were and their reasons for getting prepared? From time to time I will write about a topic and although the comments are 99.5% positive (almost unheard of nowadays) there are times when someone will mock either a commenter on an article, or what I wrote specifically. They will essentially say that what someone else is saying is stupid.

Why would they react this way? It’s human nature I guess and each of us have our own ideas of what makes sense and what is irrational. We view the world through our own filters and judge what is right, wrong and plain old wacko. This could be for all manner of things from religious beliefs, politics or social issues. I am not saying I don’t do this myself to some degree, but I started to wonder why people react with just as much disdain on prepping issues as you might with a political race. I can understand if you have political differences and while I would like to hope everyone stays civil, I can see where you would disagree with my positions on any one of a number of things and come to your own conclusion that my stance is just plain wrong. Or stupid.

But what I am talking about is prepping and more precisely the reasons people give for prepping. The overall goal of preppers is what? It is to be prepared for whatever life throws at you, is that not correct? Maybe you believe that one event more than another is most likely to happen but if you are prepping in a smart way you will be ready to deal with a wide variety of situations. Preppers all over ascribe to this philosophy I think but there are others still who think they know exactly what is going to happen. Why do I say that? It is because if you don’t believe exactly as they do, or if you believe something is possible that they don’t…you are an idiot in their eyes. What they are doing to prep is rational but your ideas are crazy. When we look at what you are doing, prepping is stupid.

You are just being paranoid

Actually, it doesn’t start out like that. It is more nuanced I believe and maybe it wasn’t intentional, but I think on a subconscious level, it is an effort by these people to present themselves as mentally superior to the person they are denigrating and to avoid getting lumped into the “crazy prepper” category. How is this done? They simply say you are being paranoid. That one simple word does two things. First, it minimizes what you believe based upon your knowledge, intuition and experience. Secondly it positions them above you because they are obviously not paranoid. Paranoid has a negative connotation since it is derived from a mental condition. If you are someone exhibiting the symptoms of a mental condition, you are not to be trusted, you most likely need psychiatric help and we should ignore you as quickly as possible.

It would be one thing if this was coming from someone who we call the ‘sheeple’ – the people who go through life thinking that nothing is wrong and who steadfastly believe that the government will always take care of you. No, in this case it is coming from someone who claims to call themselves a prepper too so I don’t understand why one person who believes it is rational to take steps in case of a disaster believes that another person who is taking steps to be prepared for another disaster is a nut-ball.

I have experienced this in several ways over the last couple of years but most recently I was viewing a conversation between several preparedness bloggers. Yes we have a secret community where we all get together and talk about you. No, seriously, there is a forum for preparedness bloggers to share information and on this forum one blogger who has a site geared toward prepping was describing the content that they most wanted on their site. Among other various topics they mentioned “nothing paranoid” as in I don’t want to have anything paranoid on my site. To be fair to this blogger, I didn’t ask for clarification so they might have had a different understanding of the word but the impression is the same. I don’t want anything that I think is stupid on my site. This was also repeated on another blog I contacted almost two years ago about partnering and they told me that they didn’t want to associate with anyone who preached ‘paranoid doom and gloom’ topics or subjects.

OK, fair enough. It is your blog and you get to say whatever you want to. I understand that and believe me I feel the same way. What I don’t get though is where we have this bias on prepping topics and more specifically, what makes you think you have all the answers? Each of us is saying that in order to prepare you need to do X, Y and Z. None of that is really in dispute. Oh sure, there are differences in opinion over the best garden types and whether or not you should stock up food or learn how to forage for wild tubers in your backyard but everyone agrees you need to eat.

We talk about home security and there are worlds of differences in opinion about what is the best handgun or rifle and what situations you may find yourself but we usually agree that everyone needs some form of personal defense. We are all talking about preparing, but as soon as you start talking about what you are preparing for, you enter the uncomfortable zone. Tell anyone you have some extra food stored up and they don’t blink an eye. Tell them you have extra food stored up because you are afraid government will declare martial law… well you are just being paranoid. And stupid.

Who cares why I am prepping?

Let’s take this to a more extreme example and use our favorite “crazy” prepper issue of zombies. Now if someone truly believes that they are prepping because zombies are a real and credible threat what does that mean to you? They have food stored up, water, security in the form of firearms and self-defense training (zombie based naturally) and they have medical supplies on hand to deal with injuries resulting from contact with the undead. If they really believe that zombies will be shuffling down the street one day, how does this bother you?

In your frame of mind this is stupid. It can never happen and maybe you are right but what difference does it make? I am preparing my family for all sorts of events. What if a tornado never takes down my home? What if an earthquake, mudslide or wildfire never happen? What if the economy suddenly turns around and we are all millionaires in a few months? What if the government suddenly says, “hey, we know we have been wrong about… almost everything, so let’s start over.”? Does that make my preparations stupid?

People have compared prepping to life insurance and I like that analogy. It doesn’t matter how I die as long as I am covered by life insurance from the perspective that there is something in place to provide an income to my family. Would you call someone who gets life insurance because they live in a bad town paranoid? Would you say that someone who has a large family to protect and takes out a life insurance policy is stupid? Of course not. Insurance for a million reasons makes sense and I can’t think of anyone ever who was called paranoid for getting insurance for their family’s sake.

At least within our own prepping community I think we should have a little more grace and understanding. I don’t care if the grid goes down and my neighbor has food and provisions stocked up because he thinks we would be invaded by little green men. He is prepared and that is something I value and respect. Maybe that is what we should be focusing on instead of whether or not your reason is PC or something I agree with. Then again, maybe I’m just stupid.

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Bill
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“Prepping” means different things to different people. For example: If I am going camping for the weekend, my prepping includes ice, basic first aid, a place to sleep, enough food for the weekend, and (at least in South Florida) a Kayak. If I am going four wheeling for a few hours, my “prepping” is pretty much a way to get my Jeep unstuck. Shovel, winch (and rope), pullys, ect. Even going to the beach, we prep with sunscreen, a towel, and something dry to change into. Maybe a few sandwiches and drinks. We all “prep” for stuff. The whole idea… Read more »
NRP
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Hi-All Ok, I just had to weigh in on this one. Let me say first and foremost that yes; you ALL are Paranoid, Crazy’s, Wacko, and probably sit around with those cool looking pointed tinfoil hats on, AND I don’t care what you say there ARE Zombies rooming the streets every night just outside my house…… HAHAHA..… And by god I’m happy to be one of those, dare I say it? “Peppers’” probably in my case “Crazy Prepper” thank you very much. Unfortunately it seems that everything/one is trying to tell us all of the above, but as soon as… Read more »
usmarinestanker
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Nice article Pat, were you recently the target of some criticism or just noticing it in general? I think people’s inclination to alienate and tear down others is twofold in cause. The first reason stems from perhaps a self-defense mechanism based on feelings of inferiority whereby the attacker needs to make themselves feel good for whatever reason (as you noted in your article). There is some evidence supporting this: people subconsciously sabotaging their loved ones’ attempts to better themselves when they themselves are not (e.g. quitting smoking/drinking, beginning to exercise, eating more healthfully, etc). http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/71 http://www.mybodytutor.com/blog/2011/04/why-your-friends-and-loved-ones-sabotage-your-weight-loss-efforts/ By keeping you “in… Read more »
BobW
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I have to believe this stems from two distinct elements. One is the personal self doubt that crops up when a person is putting away the latest 1,000 rounds of ammo, the most recent extra case of food, etc.. Its the “will we ever use this, or did I just throw away little Johnny’s college fund for nothing” thoughts that seed self-doubt about what people are doing. Poopoo’ing your nuclear Armageddon thoughts is a way of rationalizing my ‘normal’ zombie invasion thoughts. The second is what I’ll call “mainstreamitis.” There are enough fringe elements out there giving the movement a… Read more »
Pat
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Thanks Bob! You are so crazy! They would never black out football…

Snake Plisken
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It’s always a good idea to step back from the daily grind of life and reflect on a person’s prepping plan. Sometimes we are too close to an issue and need some daylight. Personally, I prep because I have to for a couple of reason’s. I am a full blown commission sales guy and if I have a rough patch in my earnings ( even hard work and doing everything right can often go bad ) so I have to be prepared for a couple three months w/o a paycheck. With proper planning and stocked up I can eat well… Read more »
Southern AZ
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I’ve also encountered another reactiion from those who are not prepared. They reject the notion because they have never considered that anything can go ‘wrong enough’ to need to prepare. It is unfathomable to them and they are incapable of imagining such a situation. Often, they are busy with work and life and just can’t, or won’t add another ‘worry’ to their list. My sister falls into this ‘worry list’ group. She has time and energy to worry about their next cruise but not an emergency supply. My prepping unfortunately includes the scenario when I tell her that she and… Read more »
CharlesH
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I loved this article – thanks a lot. I may be stupid too but you know what? I’m in a much better position today than I was 2 years ago thanks to my stupidity. I do have food storage, water, protection and a few other things just to make life a bit easier – just in case. In case of what – who in the hell knows? NO ONE knows but they know they’re doing something to survive – to live, to breath, to have something to eat and water to drink. If I’m killed in a catastrophe there isn’t… Read more »
Sarah
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GREAT thoughts. I agree that someone’s motivation for prepping shouldn’t really matter to anyone but them. The important thing is that they’re making the effort to prepare for the unexpected (or, depending on where they live, the probable). We may not all have the same motivations, but we can still be polite to each other and supportive of the community as a whole.
Thanks for the article. I’m going to link to this from EE’s twitter, FB, and blog.
Best,
Sarah

david
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In this neighborhood, I am already surrounded by zombies, (and the fun hasn’t even started yet. I got people who have lived here for over thirty years, and they haven’t even learned to speak English yet- either that, or they don’t want to. You think I wanna share my preps, with people who don’t have enough brain cells to walk and chew gum at the same time? I- and the people I care about, will be out of here when the deal goes down, so fast you don’t see my ass for dust. (I plan to revisit- just to watch-… Read more »
Gg
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Hi! Just came upon your site and I am enjoying going through and reading. It seems that it doesn’t take long for some to turn a great idea into a personal dogma that is geared toward a those-who-get-it vs. those-who-don’t…even when we are really all on the same page. Sorry to hear there is the in-group/out-group mentality at work, but the reality of an emergency situation is unpredictable….if we could fully predict it, it would not create such an emergency, right? Kudos to all who look ahead and plan as best can be done with the resources we have. Thanks… Read more »
Pat
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Thank you very much Gg and I hope you return to our site.

Pat

Jackson B. Nimble
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Remember that Noah was considered an idiot until the second day of rain.

Pat
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Very true Jackson!

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